Una de las peores pesadillas de cualquier madre es que nuestros hijos anden en malas compañías, porque sabemos que esas compañías pueden torcer el camino de nuestros hijos y llevarlos al abismo. Pero ¿qué hacer si vemos que los amigos de nuestros hijos no son los que deseamos?
Mientras son pequeños, somos nosotros quienes controlamos y nuestros hijos juegan y socializan con niños que consideramos apropiados. Pero cuando llegan a la adolescencia, esto se vuelve bastante más complicado.
Aquí hay 8 consejos de los expertos sobre lo que no debes hacer si no te gustan los amigos de tu hijo.
I swear teens do stupid stuff all the time, but nothing can compare to this new disgusting trend. Apparently, the new thing to do is called "bubbling" and, no, it does include blowing bubbles (oh, we wish it did...). Bubbling is when you pee into your own mouth. I'm not joking. This gross idea all started after pictures surfaced of a teen doing just that at a concert in Australia.
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Have you heard about caffeine powder? I hadn't until I learned Logan Steiner, an 18-year-old from Ohio who died because of it just days before his graduation. This is such a tragedy ... he was and excellent student and athlete headed to college on a full academic scholarship. But then he died from a caffeine overdose. A bag of caffeine powder was found in his room and family members think he might have been using it as part of his pre-workout routine, which apparently isn't all that uncommon.
So what is caffeine powder and what do you need to know about it to protect your kids?
Si tienes hijos adolescentes te darás cuenta que cada vez es más difícil mantenerlos ocupados durante las vacaciones de verano, y al mismo tiempo no quieres que sólo anden con los amigos o sin hacer nada. Alentar a nuestros adolescentes a que busque un trabajo es una manera de mantenerlos activos y fomentar su sentido de responsabilidad, así cómo empezar a hacer un historial laboral.
No hay nada que se compare con recibir tu primer cheque después de una dura semana de trabajo. Con esto, nuestros hijos reconocen el valor del dinero. Muchos de los más exitosos hombres y mujeres de este país aprendieron las bases del trabajo duro mientras embolsaban artículos en el supermercado, volteaban hamburguesas, o vigilaban una alberca como salvavidas.
Derek Muharem, the principal at Bethel Middle School in Connecticut, recently sent home a letter to parents warning them about the ABC Eraser Challenge game that about a dozen students at the school have participated it. Students dare each other to take this challenge, then they basically mutilate themselves with a pencil eraser and compare the wounds. It's absurd and way more dangerous than you would think. Oh and Bethel Middle School is NOT the only school where it is happening. A simple online search for "eraser challenge" will bring up tons of videos.
So why are teens doing it and why is it so dangerous?
The time has come for a new generation of mamás Latinas to let go and to be the first to send our babies off to college. We hope to have played an instrumental role in helping create the character and to instill the values and moral foundation that our daughters need to continue to make the right choices and to succeed. As a Latina who straddles two cultures that at times seem to collide, raising a daughter in America hasn't always been easy. It's been hard to strike the perfect balance of my two cultures and between my career aspirations and being a mom.
Teens seem to come up with more and more stupid things to do all the time. The latest craze is called NekNomination, a drinking game that originated in Australia and it has spread like wildfire thanks to social media. In essence, teens are given a crazy drinking dare and once they complete it they get to nominate someone else.
Like Kieren Hunter, whose dare involved filming himself downing what could have been a fatal combination of whisky, vodka, rum, Southern Comfort and sherry. His mom found him passed out with vomit all over himself and thought he was dead.
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My gringo husband, my children and I have been in Chile for the last two weeks visiting my family. My daughter Carolina, who is 18, has been doing wonderfully here. When I've asked her about the main differences between teens' lives here in Chile when compared to the United States she has said, "I love how everyone here greets you with hugs and kisses. Even when you meet a person for the first time she hugs and kisses on the cheek."
Cuando vi este video, no pude evitar reírme como niña y acordarme de mi mamá. Fue hace apenas un años o 2, que la pobre entendió cómo usar Facebook.
Pero cuando aprendió, no deje de burlarme de los mensajes que le ponía a mi hermano, tales como: "Mauricio, no me has hablado", "Mauricio, ¿dónde estás?", "Mauricio, repórtate con tu madre", o la clásica de clásicas: "Mauricio, ¿qué comiste?"...Continue Reading >
A colleague recommended that I read Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain, after telling her that I was having a tough time understanding whether my 16-year-old son has "issues" socializing because of his hear impairment or because of his introverted personality. Unlike my daughter, my son would rather stay home on the weekends playing video games, reading a book, watching a movie or just hanging with my husband and me rather than being out with friends. When my daughter was his age, I hardly saw her!
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