Thanksgiving is Thursday and I am so thankful for so much this year. Mostly, I am thankful for the people in my life. Everything else is icing on the cake. Like many parents, I have spent a lot of time and money trying to make sure that my children have everything I didn't. That was important to me because I know what it is like to go without. I grew up poor and we didn't have much. Everything we did have, we were thankful for because we knew what going without felt like. I overcorrected and I spoiled my children.
They are not bratty but they are not as thankful as they should be; not as thankful as I would have been. To truly appreciate the things you have, you need to experience going without. I am trying to teach my daughters to be thankful for what they have and to know that every person, thing and day is a gift.Continue Reading >
Día de Muertos or Day of the Dead, as it's called in English, is one of my favorite Latino celebrations. I love the idea of celebrating those who are no longer with us. Dia de Muertos gives me the opportunity to talk to my kids about death in a way that's not super sad or scary and it allows me to teach them even more about my beloved father, who left us way before they were born.Continue Reading >
Although I think we should celebrate our Latino heritage all year long, there's nothing wrong with taking advantage of Hispanic Heritage Month to help your children be proud of their roots. I'm not the expert when it comes to crafts, but my kids love them, so I make an attempt to do these with them whenever possible.
Here we share eight easy and fun Hispanic Heritage Month crafts to do with your kids so they can be even more proud of their heritage!Continue Reading >
Some of my happiest memories are of jumping rope outside with my friends, singing little songs to help us keep the rhythm. That's what I love about this short and simple video. It reminds me of the rhymes we sang as kids! I still love to jump rope, although now I mostly do it at the gym. But maybe now I will remember the cool rhymes that made jumping rope feel so effortless. This is a great video to share with kids.
Crafts are not my thing, but my kids love them and I've noticed how much fun they have when we do then, so I'm always on the lookout for those that manage to include culture or language. Luckily, there's an ever-growing list of blogs where you can find tons of activities & crafts that will make your kids' bilingual journey a lot more enjoyable.
Here are six of my favorite ones:Continue Reading >
Procter & Gamble (P&G) hosted a "Thank you, mom" panel to discuss the ever changing roles of parenting in today's society. One of P&G's panelists was MamásLatinas co-founder Lucia Ballas-Traynor who, along with the other speakers, expressed their thoughts on parenting in their respective households.
But Lucia brought to light the one thing the majority of moms have in common: the need to be in touch with their culture.Continue Reading >
My entire life, it's been very important to me that I establish my place as a Latina. The reason it's been so important is because I've always been the girl with the light skin, brown hair, and tawny eyes and I wasn't quite dark enough to be immediately recognizable as a Latina, but I was also not blonde haired with blue eyed. I've always felt like I'm caught somewhere in the middle. No one ever really can quite place me. I've always felt like I have no defined place in the world and like I've always had to prove who I was. I don't want that for my girls.
A lot of my Latino friends have told me that I am lucky because I don't understand what it's like to be judged on the color of my skin. This is true. I may not be immediately pigeonholed and discriminated against for being Latina. However, I can't even count how many times someone has shared a Mexican joke or derogatory remark with me, only to be horrified when I explain that I AM Mexican.Continue Reading >
With the holidays here, moms just want to do their Christmas shopping as quickly and painlessly as possible...especially when shopping for our babies! While shopping for a baby can be relatively easy because you know they'll hopefully like whatever you give them (as long as it's bright and colorful!), you don't want to overdo it on toys or clothes. Honestly, you want the gift you give your little one to have significance. Even if it's not your baby, you also want the gift to be unique (so that not every other kid has the same thing!), right?
Which is why we've assembled a group of the best gifts for babies we found that are special, personal, and with a little bit of our Latino flair! You can make that little guy or gal in your life happy while showcasing your pride--and your baby's!--in our culture.
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Most parents want to keep their kids as safe and healthy as possible, so I can't even imagine how hard it is to have a child battling a disease as serious as leukemia. But I also can't understand why a mother would ever force her extremely ill child leave the hospital, like 33-year-old Arizona mom Norma Bracamontes, did to her 11-year-old daughter, Emily.
Emily underwent a month of chemotherapy and had to have her right arm amputated after suffering complications. Yet last week, for some unknown reason, Bracamontes unhooked her daughter from her tubes of medicine, dressed her, and walked her out of the hospital without telling anybody! After police led to a frantic search to find the mother-daughter duo before the young girl dies from infection, her dad finally revealed that she is being cared for in a hospital in Mexico.Continue Reading >
¡Ahhhhh! Las mentiras blancas que les decimos las mamás y los papás a nuestros hijos… A mí, mi mamá me decía que había un país (Finlandia) donde hacía tanto, pero tanto frío, que los helados eran calientes. Como me lo decía mi mamá, pues me lo creí hasta que tuve como 12 años y recuerdo que ya una mujer hecha y derecha, caminando por las calles de Helsinki en el verano de 1998, no paraba de reír pensando en las ocurrencias de mi mamá y en mi inocencia de niña.
Lo que sí no me hizo mucha gracia, fue que también mi mamá, quien era estrictísima y nos daba unos jarabes de lengua interminables para inculcarnos el valor de la honestidad, me mintiera —y durante siete largos años—, con la historia de los regalos de Navidad y el Niño Jesús.Continue Reading >