Sex after having babies is difficult at best. Mostly it turns grown adults into teenagers. We find ourselves sneaking around like we don't pay the mortgage. The little people run the joint. After 9 years of parenthood, the Big Guy and I have become sort of sex ninjas. We co-slept for years, and even then our lovemaking was not put on life support. We simply employed military-like tactics to get the deed done in other parts of the house. They say necessity is the mother of ingenuity and boy, is that true.
But children don't have to kill intimacy, you just have to get creative and use your imagination and the rest of the house. Honestly, I think all the sneaking around has added some spice. Sure, we may not be afforded the luxury of rolling over every night and having missionary sex but don't underestimate the power of playing the ultimate game of hide and seek… from your kids.
Baby-making sex comes with a lot of work. From ovulation predictor kits to basal thermometers, sexual intercourse with your partner could start feeling more like a science project than a loving and intimate moment. If you feel in need of spicing things up, then we have you covered.
Yes, there is no reason why baby-making sex should be routine and boring. Here are some tips for spicing things up:
Believe it or not, you don't need sex advice to make you good in bed. Let's face the facts--most women don't get complaints about their skills in the bedroom. Why? Because we freaking rock. Being a great sex partner is an art form that you have conquered naturally. Here are five things you are already doing that make you amazing in bed.
Sorry to break it to you, ladies, but scientists just confirmed the oh-so-mythical G-spot is about as real as Bigfoot and mermaids. I guess that means we've been sending men on a wild G-spot chase all these years. Oopsie.
Luckily, all hope isn't lost. It turns out women's erogenous zone isn't limited to a tiny, hard to find spot; it's a lot more complex than that. According to a group of Italian doctors who've made it their business to study ... er, our business, women have a much larger "intimate area" than they'd originally thought.
In some sad news, a new study conducted by the Kinsey Institute has found that women have fewer orgasms than straight men. Researchers collected information from a total of 6,151 single men and women who filled out an online questionnaire about their sexual activity in the previous year. Surprisingly enough, 7 percent of the women who took the survey admitted to never reaching orgasm with their partner. Likewise, only 16 percent of women reported to having an orgasm 100 percent of the time they had intercourse. Straight men reported to having an orgasm 100 percent of the time--surprise, surprise!
Are you having a hard time falling asleep? Trying having sex. Feeling achy? Get your freak on. Feeling disconnected from your partner? Reconnect in the bedroom! Are you seeing a pattern here? I thought you would.
Countless studies have confirmed that sex does the body, mind, and soul good. In fact, it's the most effective solution for most of life's most persistent problems. If that's not reason enough for you to have sex every day of the week, here are seven more.
Maintaining a healthy sex life shouldn't be rocket science, but there are times when we all hit a rut. This doesn't mean there is a problem with the relationship or your partner for that matter, instead you may need a little help. Believe it or not there are some hacks out there that can improve your sex life!
When you see which exist you can use them accordingly if you get what I mean--wink wink.
August is a month of new beginnings and reunions. Now with Jupiter already transiting through Leo, abundance of love and sex will be the theme of this month. Get ready to harvest a lot of eroticism and collect a great passion.
Admit it, your mind sometimes tends to wander when you're going down on your partner. It happens. If you're like me, your thoughts can run the gamut from how great your man looks from this angle to where you left your dry cleaning receipt. I mean, what else are you supposed to do with all the time you have on your hands while you're down on your knees?
You know I'm right. Here are 20 common thoughts I believe run through the average woman's head when she's going down on her man. Check them out and let me know if you can relate!
I don't know about you, but there's nothing less appealing to me than when a man tries too hard to be sexy. Now don't get me wrong, I appreciate the effort and I sometimes find their attempts endearing, but more often than not, they end up making complete fools of themselves.
And I'm not the only one who thinks this. I asked women on Facebook and Twitter to weigh in on the topic, and the response was overwhelming.