The other day I wrote that one of the cardinal sins a woman can make is to not be adventurous enough. In fact, I think it's such an important point that is merits its own post. And what better day to talk about it than on St. Valentine's Day.

I was talking to my friend Ruben, a Miami-based journalist, and I was shocked when he told me that the last conversation he had with his ex-wife (he's been separated for two years and divorced for one) was about the best sexual moments they had while married! I imagine that after 10 years of marriage that remembering unforgettable moments are, well, forgettable. But he assured me that they both remembered some moments of "hot" sex, which include the 4 times they had sex in public places or outside their bedroom.

The first time was while they were parked on Washington St. in Miami Beach--in broad daylight. Their relationship had just started and she was wearing a long skirt with nothing underneath. He unzipped and lowered his jeans, she got on top, and face to face, they let pleasure take over. Ruben assures me that was the moment he knew he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her. His list went on with the time they went camping in a mountain in North Carolina, and in the middle of the night there was a terrible storm. They were the only ones in the park and they decided to put all their valuables in the car and to make love in the most animalistic, natural way under the rain, stars, and storm.   

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The next time was at the movie theater in N.Y.C. Aside from a lady who sat in the first row, they were the only ones in the theater. The movie was boring, so they decided to make things spicier several times over the next hour and a half. The last time he remembers was on a random Wednesday when his former wife snuck into the bathroom while he was showering. She wanted to say good morning as they made love. His ex-wife didn't remember this one, but it's one of his favorite memories.

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This conversation with Ruben made me think that at the end of the day, it is about the quality of the sex, not the quantity. Ruben and his ex-wife must have had sex thousands of times during their 10-year relationship, but only the really risky and adventurous ones stuck out even years after their separation. That's why take today, on Valentine's Day,  to give your partner a wonderful surprise, maybe sneaking into the shower with him, and creating your own unforgettable moment together.

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