You are jealous of his past relationships 1
"Ya lo pasado, pasado, no me interesa," as José José sings should be your motto. Focus on your relationship, the one he is in with you, not his past relationships.
You are a straight up stalker 2
It's cool if you are interested in what your loved one does and ask questions to find out about his life. It's not cool if you stalk him online, in person-- or both-- because you don't trust him, even though you have no reason not to trust him.
You accuse him of cheating for ridiculous reasons 3
You get jealous not because of anything he's actually doing. Seriously, you can't hold a man responsible for your subconcious.
You have to know where he is at all times 5
Does he have to account for every second of his time? Why? What's up with that? Are you his jail warden? How would you like it if the situation were reversed?
You instantly dislike any woman he knows 6
Any time he brings up a woman, you immediately bristle and decide you hate that woman. You give his mother a pass, but that's about it.
You can have male friends, but he better not have female friends 7
You love your guy friends and don't see a problem with having them, but your fella is not allowed to have gal friends. Double standard much?
He's being polite, you think he's flirting 8
Part of why you were attracted to him in the first place is that he has great manners, but now that you are together he better not be polite to any ladies because you take that to mean something is going on between them.
You need him to CONSTANTLY reassure you 9
It is not his job to constantly reassure you. If you are feeling so insecure that you feel the need to bring up your relationship status and how he feels about you ALL the time, then it's time to work on you and your confidence level.